How to Write a Profile That Attracts the Right Co-Parent

After coaching dozens of new members, our community team has noticed a pattern: the profiles that get the best matches are specific, not generic. "I want to be a good parent" tells another candidate nothing. "I want to co-parent with someone who lives within an hour of Lyon, values bilingual education, and wants to split custody 50/50" tells them everything.

Be transparent about logistics early: your timeline, your city, whether you're open to relocating, your financial situation, and your stance on the other parent's future romantic relationships. Vague profiles attract vague matches — and vague matches lead to painful conversations later.

Finally, include a recent photo and a short paragraph about your own childhood or family values. Members consistently say this is what made them reach out first.