Julie and Maude: 'Becoming mothers together, without compromise'

Julie and Maude: 'Becoming mothers together, without compromise'

Together for six years, Julie and Maude both wanted to experience pregnancy and share a biological bond with their child.

'We both wanted to be more than just a non-biological mother. We discovered reciprocal IVF: Maude donated her eggs, and I carried our son. We chose a known donor we met through CoParentBaby, someone open and kind. Today our son is 8 months old and we're a real family, with two moms and a dad who is present but not day-to-day.'

— Julie and Maude, 32 and 34, Brussels

Why choose a known donor over an anonymous one

'For us, it mattered that our child could one day know their origins and ask questions. A known donor allows for that connection, while clarifying everyone's role from the start with a written agreement.'

Reciprocal IVF: including both mothers

'Reciprocal IVF lets one partner provide the egg while the other carries the pregnancy. It's a beautiful way for both partners to share biological motherhood.'

Finding the right donor together

'We took three months to meet several candidates on CoParentBaby before deciding. Taking the time to discuss values and expected roles is essential before moving forward.'

Are you in a couple considering reciprocal IVF or a known donor?